People need to stop framing it like this. This was not next morning regret. She didn't enjoy any of it during it. You can argue a lot about this but I feel like I see it put this way to support a point that doesn't exist in this story.
I mean dude....she got naked on his countertop and spread her legs wide and sucked his dick afterwards.
I just....huh?
THis is like saying when I shot you with the gun I wasn't trying to kill you. Maybe that's true, but the act itself speaks so loudly that no one outside of your own head is going to believe you. So when she sucked his dick of her own free will....that signifies she was enjoying it. At least for a moment..
Like, she wasn't drunk and she wasn't forced. So if she's not enjoying sucking my dick, then, you know, stop sucking my dick.
She is a full-grown, adult female, correct? So she's capable of voicing her opinion on whether or not she wants to suck my cock? For instance, if she doesn't want to suck my cock, she can say "no?" Correct?
So if I ask a girl to suck my cock, and she starts sucking my cock, well, I think it's pretty fucking logical to then conclude she wanted to suck my cock.
I mean I'm all for the MeToo movement, but it can't be at the expense of women being fully capable humans with agency and power. Either they're equal and can open their mouths and voice their opinion or they aren't.
So, yea, she willingly sucked his dick and then regretted it afterwards. That's...exactly what happened. It fucking happens. We get with people we wish we hadn't. Oh fucking well. Welcome to life.
Now, moving on to the next part, again, sorry, but if you suck my dick and I eat you out, I think it's pretty fucking reasonable to assume vaginal intercourse is coming up on the docket. Strange, I know. This isn't like me buying you dinner and you owing me sex. THis is just the very logical, very obvious next step of the night at this point.
So is he creep for expecting it? Fuck no. Moreover, her supposed "clear, non-verbal signals" weren't clear at all. After she had her mini-breakdown or whatever she gets out of the bathroom, sits down in front of the couch, between his legs, with her back to him. THE FUCK? That's a goddamn signal that you still want to be near me and want my hands on you. That sure as fuck isn't a "clear, non-verbal signal" that you are uncomfortable. In fact, it's exactly the opposite. If you're uncomfortable, fucking say it, or at the very least, don't sit like
that. What the hell?
And if he's not taking her "clear, non-verbal" hints that she doesn't want to proceed with sex...then, again, she's a fully capable adult female with her own power and can...walk out the door. A crazy concept, I know.
The best part is her realization that Aziz Ansari was just in it for sex. No shit, woman. You came into his apartment after dinner on date 1. You sucked his dick on date 1. He ate you out on date 1. He probably assumed, and quite reasonably so, that you ALSO were just in it for sex. That would be the logical assumption there....