First, just want to say thanks for the thoughtful response.
I'll be buying one, so I'll explain why. I'm a big fan of the 360, and a large part of that is the ease of use which comes with Xbox marketplace. While the PS4 demo seemed to indicate they are putting more emphasis on developing a more robust OS system, I'm more or less in a wait and see approach with it.
I've got a Kinect and a Move for each system, and to be honest both of them were big disappointments IMO. That said, my 8 year old daughter loves Dance Central on Xbox, and even though she isn't really any good at it, she plays it all of the time. The biggest weakness behind the Kinect is the poor way it's been utilized. I'd rather have it enhance a game rather than function as a device. (Use voice commands in game, lean your head to change perspective, etc.) Basically, the controller is already an Apex device, the Kinect should enhance it's usage, not replace it. There are some signs that will be a focus of the Xbox One, but we'll see.
I've also had issues with the Kinect's effectiveness in our living room because we have a very large coffee table which obscures the player from the waist down. Now, I can move the table out of the way, but it's certainly an annoyance, and I'd rather just leave it in place. I'm not sure if that will be a consideration moving forward, but I really hope it is. I also get tired of having to stand up to play games. It needs to be effective from the couch.
I do think the Kinect will eventually get better, however, AFAIK this version of Kinect probably won't address the issues you specified. To that end, does it concern you that you will need to actually disconnect the power from the Xbox One in order to turn off the Kinect? That is to say, do you have any concerns that the Kinect is constantly recording your home - at least the audio, at all times, even when the Xbox One is powered down? Considering the recent news that the NSA is collecting data and is in league with Microsoft, is that of any concern to you?
But the design of the device working as an entertainment hub is very appealing. Technology has been constantly moving towards a unifying device, but we never seem to get there. This might be the one which finally removes my need to maintain a $150 a month cable bill, which is really paid to watch sports, HBO, AMC and the Disney Channel. Voice commands to replace 3 remotes? Yes please.
This is great, but do you think Microsoft has the ability to muscle out the cable companies? I've heard Microsoft and Apple both say these things before, promising to replace traditional home media - but it hasn't happened. I don't exactly know how an HDMI input will help in this regard considering DVR capabilities are offered from any cable company anyway as X has said earlier. Yes, there will be an OSD, and the Xbox will constantly be functioning as an extension of your television, which
is cool and is certainly an advantage the Xbox has over PS4; but with that said, I don't know if this single feature outweighs the cons as well as the price difference.
I like the exclusives they are rolling out for the system, including Halo and Spark. Dead Rising 3 will be a fun game, though I could live without it. But the only PS4 exclusive I'd have interest in is Infamous, and I'm not convinced that won't be a PC port before it's all said and done.
Malt, I guarantee you, almost all of these games for both consoles will eventually be PC ports because both consoles are x86 systems for the first time in history. A good example is the original Xbox which really brought "Games for Windows" into being simply because porting games from the Xbox 1 to the PC was fairly simple. I think both of these consoles will have fewer exclusive titles in their continuing years as they roll out, as it makes less sense for developers to only develop for one and not both.
Finally, as to the big drawbacks of the system, they aren't really game breakers for me. I haven't bought a used game in at least 2 years, so that doesn't bother me. I imagine, if all other things are equal, the DRM will lead to stronger exclusive launches for the XBox down the road, because their system is more developer friendly.
The DRM, imho, will likely lead to Sony winning this round of the console war. I'd be surprised if Sony didn't end 2014 with a double-digit lead in next-gen adoption. I think that will be much larger factor for publishers who ultimately decide what platform particular titles are developed. I do think the Xbox One will have more titles than the PS4 simply because of it's support of DirectX - but in the age of Apple and Android (neither of which use DirectX) there are many more developers in the market today that are very comfortable with SDL or OpenGL. This creates a completely different landscape than what we observed for the last two console iterations. So we'll just have to wait and see.
My Xbox 360 is constantly running online already, and I don't borrow games. I certainly understand how these are game breakers for a lot of people, they just don't really affect me.
I can understand that, but I also think as consumers we have a responsibility to hold companies accountable for what most likely consider overreaches. Microsoft is changing the concept of software ownership by eliminating the usefulness and re-usability of physical media. I think consumers should tell Microsoft what they think about being stripped of that ability by looking at alternatives, even if the Xbox One offers some nice new features.
Up until now, I've supported all of the major consoles simultaneously. I already bought a Wii U for my daughter, though the game support has been TERRIBLE so far. They really need to start bringing some big Nintendo exclusives to the table. The PS3 has been rarely used in this house, though The Last of Us may end up justifying that system's purchase before it's all said and done. I guess my point is, I may end up with both the Xbox and the PS4 before it's all said and done, but I'm not in a hurry to get both. I'll start with the Xbox, because I've appreciated Microsoft's support and I like the company's vision of a entertainment hub, I'm just hoping they deliver in all the ways they didn't with the Kinect.
Considering the differences between the two, is Kinect and the OSD TV feature worth $100 for a graphically inferior console that imposes such tight DRM restrictions? Is it worth the loss of privacy? I'm just wondering where do you draw the line and say "yes, this is a cool feature (kinect, hdmi-in), but I can't deal with the reduced graphics, higher price, DRM, and privacy issues."