I know there's a handful of divorced/separated folks with kids here
Any words of wisdom for when your ex has a new man in her life?
IDGAF about her, just the thought of another person daughter makes me sick to my stomach and scared and depressed and I'm already an insecure mess mentally
I really need to get to a therapist regularly, 2.5 years of sobriety but I have little to show for it, I just completely melted down yesterday. I "recovered" quickly by taking my good anxiety meds and the depression turned into anger and I got stuff done but that's not exactly sustainable unless I want to take beta blockers every day for the rest of my life. It really is the only time I feel good about myself though and don't less the depressive / intrusive thoughts win.
When I'm already in the dumps and I see triggers it just makes everything 10x worse. And those triggers could be as simple as seeing a messy garage or basement that I've put off for a long time, or wasting time watching dumb YouTube videos, or my dogs being bored, or eating unhealthy, or not exercising
ETA my daughter is just about to turn 3